advice to sisters

[shemjaz]

Praise be to Allah. We praise Him and seek His help and forgiveness. We seek refuge with Allah from the evil of our own selves and from our evil deeds.
O you who believe! Fear Allah and keep your duty to Him. And let every person look to what he has sent forth for tomorrow, and fear Allah. Verily, Allah is All-Aware of what you do. Surah Al Hashr 59:18Dear sister in Islam,
Read the above words of Allah and ponder over it. What have we prepared for tomorrow? What have we prepared for the inevitable i.e. death which can come to us at any time and place? We Muslim women fast and pray, seeking to enter paradise but neglect many teachings of Islam, thereby earning the displeasure of Allah azzawajal.
Dear sister, if someone gifted you a diamond necklace would you wear it when you go to the market place? No.
Because you fear that you will be harmed by people who see it and harm you for it.
Then why sister do you display your beauty which Your creator has gifted you with?
Your beauty is only for those who have the privilege to see it.
Allah says, And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts and not to show off their adornment except only that which is apparent  and to draw their veils all over Juyubihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms, etc.) and not to reveal their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers, their husband's fathers, their sons, their husband's sons, their brothers or their brother's sons, or their sister's sons, or their (Muslim) women (i.e. their sisters in Islam)….24:31Any person besides those mentioned above are your non mahram before whom you should observe hijab. Yes, it also includes your cousins, your sister’s husband and your husband’s brothers. Beware of ignoring hijab in front of your husbands relatives.
Narrated Uqbah ibn Aamir that the Prophet peace be upon him said,” Beware of entering upon women.” A man from the ansar said,’O Messenger of Allah, what about the in-law?’ He replied,’ The in-law is death.’

But what is hijab?Is it to cover your hair with a shawl that keeps falling from it while wearing tight clothes and make up? Or to wear a sari with a mafta on your head for namesake while revealing your body shape? Or is it wearing a parda with the shawl around your shoulders hence showing your hair and neck? Dear sister, do not make a mockery out of your hijab. Your whole body except your face and hands are your awrah to be covered. Cover does not mean wearing tight long sleeved and full length clothes which show of the shape of your body.
Protect yourself and your family from a fire that is 70 times hotter than the fire of this earth. Dear mother, can you bear the thought of your daughter burning in fire? Your daughter whom Allah has blessed you with? Dear sister, do not let your youth stop you from disobeying Allah. Why do you wait tell you are old and shriveled and no one will give a second glance at you? Why do you wait for old age when you see persons younger than you dying around you?
Narrated by abu Hurairah that the Prophet peace be upon him said,”There are two types of the people of Hell……….and women who are clothed but naked, walking with an enticing gait with something like the humps of camels on their heads. They will not enter paradise nor even smell its fragrance.”
Dear sister, fear Allah.
And Allah says,” And let those who oppose the Messenger’s commandments, beware, lest some fitnah should befall them or a painful torment be inflicted on them.”24:63